- Ask, and read the answer. A hand out is a question, not a decision.
- “No” is a complete sentence. No reason owed, none asked for.
- Start open, close only if invited. The other person sets the distance.
- Anyone can stop mid‑song. Walk them off the floor and thank them.
- Match the level in front of you. Dips and drops need an explicit yes.
- Look after yourself. Deodorant, a spare shirt, breath, short nails.
